ALSO re: Neil Gaiman...
…The Saratoga signing on Thursday hasn’t yet sold out! It’s a big venue, so, folks in the area, git your butts and come with us we’ll be the nutty people in costume :D
June 2013
Also how about the much older than I regular customer who I inexplicably see every so often when Amy and co. and I go out dancing who insists on following us and asking to buy me a drink when I have already said no several times, nicely, and later not so nicely, and also when I am clearly there with someone else (like, why does it feel even worse when someone won’t even respect that, like it’s ridiculous that normally ‘I’m seeing someone’ is one of the only things that totally ends creepers leaving women alone, but when even that doesn’t work it’s like, UGH)?
It all makes me want to punch something.
wow the tags on that one post got kind of away from themselves.
I feel weird sometimes because I don’t want to be like, OMG LEAVE ME ALONE but if you were cute and I was interested in you keep it coming, but that isn’t really what I’m talking about.
Because even when it does happen at work and it’s someone I might normally be attracted to, there are certain like, red flags, the way things happen tonally and I’m just like, ugh, this is so uncomfortable and this is my space, I’ve worked here for so long and I love my job and I am wholly myself here in a lot of ways why are you coming in here and ruining it.
I think it’s ridiculously shitty that some dudes won’t leave you alone unless you say you’re seeing someone. Like what you’re at work. Working.
I will tear them all asunder with my wolfy jaws.
This is/was a different person than the one I texted you about yesterday. It happens a LOT, just in the last few days several of them seem to have gotten really brazen. It’s not just me either, it’s towards my coworkers also. It’s hard when it’s customers because you have to toe that line between I don’t want to cause a problem and please leave me alone (even though my bosses have made it always very clear if we are ever uncomfortable we can tell them and they will deal with it, in the past when there have been creepy people I’ve only had to go in the back and my boss will serve the person/ask them to leave).
There’s also that whole yeah we’re kind of friends! oh wait no I guess you just want to date me, nevermind. WHAT HAPPENED TO FRIENDSHIP :(
wow the tags on that one post got kind of away from themselves.
I feel weird sometimes because I don’t want to be like, OMG LEAVE ME ALONE but if you were cute and I was interested in you keep it coming, but that isn’t really what I’m talking about.
Because even when it does happen at work and it’s someone I might normally be attracted to, there are certain like, red flags, the way things happen tonally and I’m just like, ugh, this is so uncomfortable and this is my space, I’ve worked here for so long and I love my job and I am wholly myself here in a lot of ways why are you coming in here and ruining it.
i wish that instead of really annoying guys coming up to you in the street to hit on you it was really cool girls who were like hey i like your hair do you want to come over and have some wine and hang out and do eachother’s nails really dope and eat foods and talk shit about all the strange men that have hit on us
